A Crisis of ual Conscience?

I used to worry about losing my virginity and being a virgin forever, but now I realise that it's all about confidence. There's hundreds of promiscuous girls out there who only want casual and I could go out and get some whenever I want. But do I want to? Part of me thinks I should wait for a girl I love and lose it then in a safe comfortable environment, but then another half thinks 'Sod that, I only live once and I should spend the next few years having casual and FWB's. But now I aren't sure if I'm ready, and when I am, will I regret it the next day, will I be hurt(emotionally)? is just and plenty of people have it every day and I think to myself 'Would I be comfortable sleeping with a girl I don't know, or don't love, aren't in a relationship with?' I probably wouldn't sleep with a girl until the 10th date or longer if I was serious about her, maybe wait until we had something more solid or had moved in and were in love even. But that's how I would behave in a relationship, casual is something different, but I only get 1 virginity and it would be awful to lose it and be used or regret it or end up 'heartbroken' as people call it.